Dayna Fallon: Finding Comedy in the Unpaid Administrative Position of Motherhood

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Dayna Fallon finds comedy in the everyday pressures that rarely get a moment in the spotlight. Ahead of The Manager Is Me at Melbourne Fringe, we caught up with the performer to talk about creating a show alongside a busy home life, preparing to face an audience and finding moments of connection through laughter.

Meet The Performer – Dayna Fallon

What is this production or show about?

It’s a comedy about one woman trying to survive the morning before school drop-off. She has three children, a husband with complex health needs, work demands and a growing suspicion that her own life has become an unpaid administrative position.

It combines theatre and spoken word, and underneath all the chaos is a woman trying to remember what she wants beyond everyone putting their bloody shoes on.

How would you describe what you do to someone encountering your work for the first time?

I turn things that normally go unsaid into spoken word and theatre.

There are characters, there’s poetry, there’s a woman getting increasingly close to saying what she actually thinks. It’s funny and a bit feral, but there’s real tenderness underneath. I want you laughing before you realise I’ve said something that hurts.

What has been the biggest challenge in preparing for this role or performance?

TIME! As a mum of three, a carer and someone with a day job, finding uninterrupted time to make a show about never having uninterrupted time has been the biggest challenge. The material is very available. Chunks of free creative time are less forthcoming.
So I’ve learnt to use even fifteen-minute blocks. You can’t always wait until you feel inspired. Sometimes everyone’s briefly stopped needing you and you have to go NOW. You can’t wait for perfect conditions because they don’t exist.

What is your process for getting ready before you step on stage?

Secure the babysitter. Attempt nap. Watch Drag Race for confidence. Brush teeth. Do an actual warm-up. Brief existential crisis. Remind myself this is not an elimination episode. Breathe. Begin.

How do you look after your physical and emotional health during a demanding run?

I’m better at the physical side, I love the gym, mandarins, vitamin C! Sleep is key but challenging with kids. Emotional health, well that’s a work in progress. I think the key is to lower my standards at home. The washing can have its own demanding run.

What do you think makes a performance truly connect with an audience?

Specificity. ā€œMotherhood is hardā€ is true, but it doesn’t tell you much. ā€œI’m having a micro-holiday eating leftover toast in the driveway gives you the whole person.

I think people connect when you say something they’ve thought privately and assumed made them a terrible person. There’s a particular laugh that means, ā€œOh, thank God. You too.ā€

What strategies do you use to manage nerves before you go on?

Nerves and excitement feel very similar, so I tell myself I’m excited. I also remind myself the audience have chosen to be there, nobody’s been summoned for jury duty. And then I think, ā€œRemember when you wanted what you currently have?ā€ I’m getting to do something I’ve dreamed of. I want to savour it, not just survive it

Is there anything else you would like to share?

You don’t have to earn a night out by getting everything done first. It will never all be done. Come with a friend, come on your own, leave the housework. I’ve made a whole show out of being overwhelmed, so technically this is a tax deductable work event for you.

Huge thanks to Dayna for sharing her journey of creating art in fifteen-minute blocks between the demands of motherhood and caregiving. Her honesty about finding the funny in feeling overwhelmed is exactly the kind of comedy we need more of. If you are ready for a night out that counts as a tax-deductible work event in overwhelm, grab your tickets to The Manager Is Me at Melbourne Fringe.

Thank you to Dayna for giving us a glimpse into the work behind The Manager Is Me. See her bring it to the stage at Melbourne Fringe; tickets are available now.

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Beyond Good and Evil: Lord of the Flies Examines the Darkness Within

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In today’s world, where the terms ā€˜unpredictability’ and ā€˜uncertainty’ have become part of our everyday vocabulary, is it no wonder that we, as a society, are craving more and more control over our lives? To feel safe, repetitive routines and rituals are formed. Activities and nutrition fuel our bodies and minds. Social connections satisfy our need for feeling valued and accepted.

And yet, beyond our scope, there are greater forces that exist in our world that we have no control over. Circumstances of good vs evil; of hate and suffering; of larger-than-life power plays beyond our human understanding. So we look for strong leadership (of countries, corporations or institutions) to restore peace and harmony. To fix and put right. To give us hope. To make us feel safe once more.

But, as humans, are we naive to think that peace is the answer to eradicating evil? Or does evil exist as part of our nature, if all hope is lost?

In director Steven Mitchell Wright’s reimagining of Nigel Williams’ adaptation of Lord Of The Flies, we examine how the science of evil can slowly creep into the human psyche, and seek to dismantle order and destroy others in its wake.

From the moment I enter the theatre, award-winning director Steven Mitchell Wright transports me in a moment of childhood innocence, where a deeply-slanted white stage faces in towards the audience, exemplifying a pure boys-being-boys existence: (played by adolescents and non-gender actors). Boys playing joyful sport together, free as flies, even in an uncertain world.

 

When these boys are put on a plane out of England to escape an atomic war, crash-landing on a remote island, we are witness to a different kind of battle – the survival-of-the-fittest. We are transported to a land where the forces of good are distorted slowly into evil – from innocent boys basking in adventure to descending into tribal warfare. Asking us: if evil is rooted in our nature – or borne from ego-driven madness?

For in this no-holds-barred classically brilliant production, Wright looks at every line in the script and explores the timing of its statements for a new generation. Much like looking into a mirror, he begs us to ponder: Have rules become cloudier? Has leadership lost even more of its meaning? Has the ball of ā€˜authority’ become so weak and so disposable, that it can be thrown around willy-nilly, like an Aussie rules football, when it comes to our modern survival? Or does it come complete with sharpened spears and a winning-at-all-costs mindset?

Brilliantly played, staged and choreographed, Steven Mitchell Wright’s immersive staging also places modern technology at the forefront of his production to amplify the madness of evil. Actors carry a selfie stick with an iPhone camera projected onto the stage to amplify the terror of savagery. A dance mob forms to symbolise freedom with undertones of carnal desires and the birth of wild savagery. Animalistic chants and wild physical movements intensify the killer instinct of a hunter seeking its prey. Boys in fight-or-flight mode constantly on guard – losing their train of thought in a world without routine, becoming animal-like in nature. The effects of red lights depicting madness, effectively created by lighting designer Ben Hughes and alerting sounds of nature infiltrating our minds, such as tropical thunder and rain pouring down, were effectively created by sound designer Jack Burmeister – inviting us into the fearful world existing even within nature itself.

The cast of this show were no less than exceptional. Angus Leighton as Ralph exemplified the exact leading man energy and machismo required to play a budding showman, a leader in looks, and in bark; with no bite. Yet, watching his character’s ego-crushing demise was both heartbreaking and riveting.

Sean Yuen Halley as Jack commanded the stage immediately with his intense energy of unapologetic arrogance and ferocity, seeking to seize control of everything in his world, yet losing control of himself in the process. Jack’s descent into madness was depicted so methodically and so seamlessly, launching into what appeared to be a devil-like possession that was flawlessly executed.

But in the role of Piggy, my most highest of accolades goes to Oliver Cowen. Wearing his heart on his sleeve, Cowen brought the audience to tears with his angelic presence, beyond the obvious childhood taunts and physiological judgements: to symbolise the moral compass within us all. Cleverly balancing the show out with the hope – that there is good in people. For this alone, I congratulate Cowan as not only embodying the backbone of this production, but the heart and conscience of this show as well.

All in all, this production of ā€˜Lord Of The Flies’ is a must-see. It is an exceptional production for the 2026 season at Theatreworks that should not be missed.

To book tickets to Lord Of The Flies, please visit https://www.theatreworks.org.au/2026/lord-of-the-flies.

Photographer: Image 1: Oliver Cowen and Angus Leighton Image 2: Sean Yuen Halley, Oliver Cowen, and Angus Leighton Image 3: Blaise Tindale, Oliver Cowen, Charlie Veitch, Sean Yuen Halley, Oliver Gorringe, Declan Magee, Darcy Crawford, William Bastow

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If These Walls Could Speak

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I will never cease to be amazed at what can be done with the right amount of creative genius, even in a small space, and I was particularly blown away as we entered the theatre at Old Fitz. Mia MacCormick’s Dixon & Daughter’s set was immediately impressive with a two-storey set up with two upstairs bedrooms, one open to us with the double bed clearly belonging to someone who has lived there for many years and the familiar bedspread that told the same story. There’s a kitchen in the background, an old style living room (again, with the iconic upholstery of the era on the sofa). We see all the childhood remnants such as rocking horse in storage underneath. It’s a typical house that has seen generations. A house we might all remember but the shell of it is peeled away in parts, symbolic of the here and now and fuzzy, messy, reminiscing that we are about to be pulled into.

Topaz Marlay-Cole’s lighting and Nicky Pardesi’s sound design engage throughout. Darkness pools around the moments that need it most, and characters are isolated by a single source when they are at their most exposed and vulnerable. The transitional soundscapes hold us in the uncomfortable space between scenes, refusing to let us settle, while the pauses punctuated by light shifts carry their own quiet weight. Clever and intentional.

Mary, played by Vanessa Downing, has just returned home. Her granddaughter Ella and daughter Julie are ready to surprise her, while youngest daughter, Bernie quietly prepares them for the reality that Mary is “in a mood.” In these early scenes, Deborah Bruce’s script establishes the architecture of the family with deceptive lightness: Julie as the scapegoat fleeing a bad relationship and fighting an alcohol dependency; Ella as the playful peacemaker trying to offset the formidable dark cloud her grandmother carries into the room. Mary is no-nonsense, wanting nothing more than to get home and back to life. We soon discover she has served six months in prison for something connected to her deceased husband, and from that moment, the unravelling begins.

 

Downing’s Mary is formidable. There is no softening of the character’s abrasiveness, no easy bid for sympathy, just a woman carrying decades of damage and struggling to articulate the remorse beneath the bluntness.

Linda Nicholls-Gidley as Bernie embodies the daughter who must hold it together at all costs, and we see that fight written into every moment. Sarah Jane Starr arrives as the estranged stepdaughter Tina/Briana, larger than life and glamorous, having stepped into her power and intent on helping Julie do the same. Starr plays the light and shade with real skill, making Briana’s complicated journey entirely her own. Romney Hamilton’s Julie is the loveable screw-up, all flightiness and docility in the early scenes, and then, when the drama reaches its peak, Hamilton delivers a performance that takes your breath away. You genuinely do not see it coming.

Danette Potgieter’s Ella makes her own quiet pivot, moving from the warmth and playfulness of the opening to something altogether more grounded and affecting when the moment demands it. Leigh is a character that Mary introduces into the mix, at first I wondered about this writing choice, I wasn’t sure we needed this character from the school of hard knocks who was providing a lot of comic relief (played joyfully by Rylea Ellis), but I realised that Mary had to bring this outsider in to disrupt the roles and stories running and Rylea plays this very well.

Director Kim Hardwick’s work is full of specificity. Every exchange feels immediate, every relationship fully inhabited. But what struck me most was the blocking. Each character had their physical place within the history of this intergenerational story, allocated to a particular space unless the action required something different. They were connected but always isolated, until they weren’t. It was a brilliant choreography of power and position, making visible what the dialogue could only gesture at.

An all-femme cast is its own kind of power, and this one is clearly working together and holding one another with real care. The dark themes are handled with tenderness and unflinching honesty in equal measure.

Dixon and Daughters is not an easy watch, but it is an important one. It will speak to anyone who has lived as a woman, and to anyone who has loved, nurtured or been shaped by one. This is a story that needs to be told, and the Tiny Dog Productions team has told it with exactly the courage and care it deserves.

To book tickets to Dixon And Daughters, please visit https://purchase.oldfitztheatre.com.au/EventAvailability?EventId=1201.

Photographer: Campbell Parsons

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Sydney Lyric Transforms Into Wonderland As Cirque Alice Opens This Week

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Venture down the rabbit hole for the exclusive 2026 Sydney season of Cirque Alice, which opens on Friday for a two week season for the school holidays. An epic new show from the creators of Cirque Du Soleil’s Mad Apple and the international smash hits The Illusionists, Le Noir, Circus 1903 and Now You See Me Live, Cirque Alice will transform Sydney Lyric Theatre from 25 September to 11 October.

Produced by Tim Lawson and Simon Painter, Cirque Alice reimagines Lewis Carroll’s classic adventure and bring to life everyone’s favourite characters with extraordinary acts from some of the greatest performers around the globe.

Lawson and Painter have created a unique circus show that celebrates one of the most recognisable fantasy worlds of all time, with Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland a ā€˜curiouser and curiouser’ source of inspiration for all ages.

Creative Producer Simon Painter said he was incredibly excited to bring Cirque Alice to Sydney. ā€œThe tales of Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland provide the perfect backdrop to create a magical narrative about a cirque show. Filled with some of the most eccentric and larger-than-life characters and creations, the original stories have provided such amazing inspiration for this groundbreaking new production,ā€ Painter said.

Producer Tim Lawson added, ā€œThis is the perfect show for everyone – whether you’re on a date night or you want to bring the whole family along – do not miss this performance of jaw dropping acts set around one of the world’s most magical stories.ā€

Cirque Alice will entice audiences down the rabbit hole, with an awe-inspiring set and an enthralling soundtrack featuring newly arranged contemporary renditions of some of the world’s favourite classical hits. The show will feature a line-up of the greatest acrobatic performers from around the globe, mesmerising aerialists, mind-bending contortionists, exquisite puppetry and dancers, special musical guest, comedic artists and more.

Immerse yourself and get lost in Cirque Alice, a captivating two-hour show for all ages. cirquealice.com

Venue: Sydney Lyric Theatre
Season: 25 September – 11 October
Performance Times: Wed – Sat 7pm, Sun 6pm, Matinees Wed, Thurs, Sat & Sun 1pm
Prices: From $69 (Transaction fees apply)
Bookings: ticketmaster.com.au or 1300 795 267

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